When he insisted on venturing out into the freezing cold alone to run small errands for me, I wondered if he was just laying the groundwork necessary to fulfill his exotic sexual fantasies.
When he hastily pulled me back from crossing in front of a moving car, I grew irritated at the assumption that he thought I couldn’t look out for myself.
It’s springtime, and the days are pleasingly long; the sun is shining stripes into my room through the blinds.
I open up my computer and decide to Google something that I’ve been meditating on for a while. I type into Google: “why do white men like Asian women so much”. Some posts assert that the only men who date Asian women are those who “can’t get a real woman” because they’re deficient in some way.
People are starting to talk about the question in ways that examine exotification and fetishism and providing a refutation of the “docile”, “submissive” stereotype that used to be so widespread.
Of the occasional same race couples, whenever I did see a generally attractive Asian woman, they were almost always holding hands with an Asian man (of varying attractiveness).It is a sweeping racial stereotype, commensurate with calling Latinas “spicy” or black women “angry.” So over the next couple of months that I spent seeing him, I became subject to intermittent implosions caused by insecurities that made me feel like a mere accessory.We would be sitting in a restaurant, taking a long walk, or video chatting for hours when the question of what I was to him would hit me like a truck.I was sitting in Santana Row eating some frozen yogurt and was able to make many personal observations.I noticed that a majority of the couples were of the White/Asian variety.I’m a data-driven sort of guy (gee, did you guess that I was Asian? Seriously though, according to the US census bureau, there were 219,000 marriages in 2010 in the US between Asian males and white females.That’s a […] This project took me the accumulation of 1.5 years to accumulate, and I’m happy to share it with you this week! Get a copy or ARD here before we remove all the bonuses after launch. Though he couldn’t—or refused to—articulate why, I felt I could see through the cloudy pleasantries and find an ideal prototype of an Asian woman he had in mind: smart, skinny and exotic with long black hair, who was sexually adventurous but pliant to his demands. He was the fourth white man who had directly confessed his love for Asian women to me.They took Bruce Lee from us and now they are doing it all over again. Those girls must be total sluts." Interesting stuff. It’s almost five o’clock in the afternoon and I’m sitting at my desk. They proclaim that men who are attracted to Asian women are closet paedophiles, since Asian women apparently all have the bodies of prepubescent youths.